Richard’s Dream Career
Well, here is a test. tell me if you experience the same thing. I have my CV (Resume) on the job boards like jobing, careerbuilder, and Monster; I have a Linkedin account; I have a talentzoo account and still the only jobs that are forwarded to me or employers who contact me are offering mortgage, insurance and other sales type positions, for which I have no interest.
Everyone has that DREAM JOB firmly implanted in their brain. The one that all of the self help and motivational gurus tell you is the one that you would do for free if possible. They then suggest to find a way to do THAT job and you will have happiness yada yada yada…
Well, my dream job is to be in show business, whether playing my guitar, singing, or acting. I have always been comfortable performing in front of a camera or crowds. Hollywood actually did call me, but it was a wrong number. Nonetheless, as we grow older and our dreams get sidetracked by life choices and reality, our dream Job is substituted by what will pay the bills or support the family and you do what ever it takes to keep a roof over your head and make sure the kids have what they need until that elusive dream job becomes a distant memory as we sit in our cubicle waiting for Morphius to give us the blue pill so we can wake from our slumber. Even if you made all of the “correct” choices; you went to college, you earned an MBA, you have community service and leadership and management experience; you put in the 60 hour work weeks, yet that executive position still eludes you.
All I have to say is “Life isn’t Fair” Get over it!
It doesn’t have to be like this! Stop focussing on that singular aspect of your life. We are not defined by our career or the perceptions of others. Warning! Cliche ahead - Happiness is not a destination but a journey- and it comes and goes, and does not have to be tied to a specific career or event.
So What if you hate your job! Most of us do. We do these jobs anyway because we have responsibilities, and people count on us.
After reading several motivational and get rich books, the one thing they have in common is they never provide the road map or detailed information. So if you tie your happiness solely to material wealth, then write a motivational/get rich book. It will no doubt fly off the shelves like all of the other get rich books.
If, however, you are ready for a different answer then keep reading.
Find joy in other aspects of your life, whether in Church, volunteering, family, friends, hobbies, etc. Life is so much more than the career that we choose or the one that chose us.
So, until I land that great job that is within 15min drive from my home in Surprise AZ, where I am in a leadership position, sitting in a big office with a great view of the White Tank Mountains making big deals like Donald Trump and earning a six figure income, I can find joy in Church, volunteering, family, friends, hobbies, and growing confidence that Jesus is helping me every day.
